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What It Means to Belong to a School Community

Updated: Jan 21


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Big–Little Buddies at St. Victor: older students guiding, supporting, and learning alongside their younger peers as part of our strong, connected school community.

Belonging in School Begins with Being Known

When families ask what makes St. Victor School feel different, we often find ourselves returning to the same word: belonging. Not just being welcomed, but being known, valued, and invited to grow as part of something larger than yourself.


Belonging is a foundational part of Catholic education — and at St. Victor, it’s woven into the daily rhythm of school life. Whether you’re a preschooler finding your courage on the first day or an eighth grader leading younger students in prayer, every child is reminded: You have a place here. You matter here.


Belonging Looks Like Showing Up for One Another

Community takes shape in the ordinary moments. It looks like:

  • Older students reading with their Little Buddies, cheering them on as they learn new words.

  • Teachers greeting every student by name — and noticing when someone needs extra support, encouragement, or simply someone to listen.

  • Families who stay after Second Sunday Mass for “just five more minutes,” because conversations with other parents feel grounding and familiar.


These simple acts express profound truths: we’re responsible for one another, we grow because of one another, and we rise by lifting each other.


Belonging Means You Don’t Have to Be the Same to Succeed Here

Some private schools define excellence through selectiveness — testing to get in, limiting who can enroll, or not publishing student outcomes. At St. Victor, we define excellence differently.

We believe Catholic education is transformational, and everyone deserves access to it.We don’t “weed out” students to protect our scores — we lift them up. And the results speak for themselves:

  • 85% of our students meet or exceed California state standards, far outpacing nearby public schools. Click to learn more about our Testing Results.

  • Families receive transparent academic progress — something many private schools in the area do not publish.

  • Students learn in small, supportive classrooms where rigor and belonging are not opposites, but partners.


We also intentionally design collaborative learning environments, because research shows that students often learn just as much — if not more — from each other as they do from direct instruction. Teachers guide, support, and ensure accuracy, but students are empowered to lean on classmates, share ideas, and build understanding together. In this model, the classroom becomes a true learning community where every child both contributes and grows.



This approach doesn’t lower expectations; it raises them because when students feel, supported, and part of a community, they rise to the challenge. Belonging in St. Victor School means you don’t have to start ahead to thrive. With encouragement, high expectations, and personalized support, every child has the opportunity to excel. Every child is welcomed as they are and nurtured as they grow.


Belonging Is Built Through Shared Traditions

Community isn’t accidental. It grows through the rhythms and rituals that shape childhood — the kinds of moments parents remember long after school days have passed.

At St. Victor School, belonging looks like:

  • The October Parish Festival — booths, music, laughter, and familiar faces that make campus feel like a small town stitched together by faith and friendship.

  • Field Day in late May — friendly competitions, cheering, and the joyful energy that signals summer is just around the corner.

  • The May Crowning Prayer Service — honoring Mary with flowers and hymns, connecting today’s Chargers to generations before them.

  • The Blessing of the Animals — a morning filled with wagging tails, small pets, big smiles, and gratitude.

  • Junior High Sleepaway Camp — Science Camp or CYO Camp, where students experience independence, courage, and the unforgettable magic of bonding with classmates around campfires and late-night conversations.


These traditions become the stories students carry into adulthood — reminders that they weren’t just attending school, but growing within a community rooted in faith, joy, and shared purpose.

Belonging Encourages Students to Become Their Best Selves

Children thrive when they feel secure, supported, and connected. Research consistently shows that a strong sense of belonging is linked to:

“School connectedness is one of the strongest predictors of student well-being and academic success.” — Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, School Connectedness Report, 2022

This connection is associated with:

  • higher academic achievement

  • increased confidence

  • fewer behavior challenges

  • greater motivation to learn

(The CDC notes that school connectedness is one of the strongest protective factors for youth.)


At St. Victor, teachers model empathy, cooperation, and faith in action — and students learn that they, too, can make a difference. We want each child to graduate believing: I have gifts to offer. I contribute to the world. I belong.


What It Means to Belong at St. Victor

Belonging here means more than having a seat in the classroom. It means:

  • Your child is seen.

  • Your experiences are valued.

  • Your family is part of a community rooted in faith, love, and purpose.

  • And no matter where your child begins, we’re committed to helping them grow.

Because belonging is not something we hope students will find on their own — it’s something we intentionally build, every day, together.

  • Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). School Connectedness: Strategies for Increasing Protective Factors Among Youth.

  • Harvard Graduate School of Education. The Power of Collaborative Learning.

  • Edutopia / George Lucas Educational Foundation. Peer-to-Peer Learning Research & Benefits.

  • California Department of Education (CDE). CAASPP Results & Academic Performance Data.

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